True love is happiness. It is not for nothing that many books have been written about her and countless films have been made. We believe in true love so much that we often become victims of energy attachments.
There are no barriers to true love. Feelings overtake, envelop and take you into sweet captivity, from which you have no desire to get out. God calls to love, so much has been said about love in art, love is the basis of everything. But how often do we fall into the power of passions, completely unaware that we have become a victim of energy binding! Its networks are so similar to real feelings that a person, enveloped in rapture and happiness, cannot even admit the thought that this is not love. A love affair has destructive properties that incinerate all tender feelings.
The nature of energy bindings
By contacting people, we exchange energy information. This is a completely natural and painless process. But at the junction of energy exchange, sometimes a spark slips. This is where sympathy or antipathy for an opponent comes from. When a person is pleasant to us, subconsciously we show more interest in him, we make efforts to please him, therefore, we give an order of magnitude more of our own energy. The more positive experiences a person causes in us, the more attached we become to him. This is how an energy connection is formed.
True love is mutual and full of harmony. The process of energy exchange is considered favorable and correct when we not only give, but also receive energy back. Only then will the connection between people be inextricable and strong. Both should take part in improving and developing relationships. If only one person does this, the existing feeling cannot be called love - it is an energetic attachment.
It is important to respect personal space and not cross the line. Under no circumstances should you turn your partner’s life into your own, or impose your interests, opinions and life position. Each person should bring something fresh and personal into the relationship and thereby develop common interests. You need to remember that you should give your partner a breath of fresh air, but you won't be able to do this if you completely fill his life with you.
If it happens that one of the partners constantly strengthens the energy of the relationship, while the other does nothing, then he begins to feed on the energy of the “donor”. Such a person is called an energy vampire. If only one tries to fuel the relationship with energy, then he will have neither the strength nor the desire for everything else.
How to detect energy bindings
It is necessary to detect the energy connection in time so that your relationship does not become a “single-goal game.” Every person deserves happiness and love. And if you only give, but do not receive anything in return, be sure that such an alliance will not last long and will not bring you anything good.
The main signs of energy binding:
- You are always waiting for your partner to contact you. Stay close to your phone and constantly check your email.
- Jealousy appears in you, you regularly view your partner’s pages on social networks, check his/her phone and email.
- Every day it becomes more and more difficult for you to concentrate on work and other matters.
- Almost every conversation with your acquaintances or friends comes down to your loved one.
- You are more concerned about your partner's satisfaction and satisfaction than your personal needs.
How to get rid of energy binding
If at least two of the principles given above characterize your stay in a love union, then, most likely, you are energetically “attached” to your partner. In order for this situation to change and the exchange of energy to return to normal, you should work hard on yourself and strengthen relationships, achieving harmony of feelings and mutual understanding.
- It is necessary to take a short break and try not to show any activity in the relationship.
- You should focus and direct all your energy to something else that brings positive emotions and satisfaction.
- Allow yourself not to think about anything bad, concentrate on your hobby or work.
- Take up meditation, yoga, aromatherapy or other spiritual practices. They will speed up the process and help you achieve positive results in a short time.
- Change your image, find new hobbies, harmonize your consciousness.
- Be a confident person. People are attracted to positive, cheerful and successful individuals.
The main thing in a relationship is to become a safe haven for your partner, where she will feel peace and security. Most often, people do not understand or do not want to understand that they are energetically attached to their partner. And the worst thing is that they do not strive to change anything, dooming themselves and their loved one to unhappy relationships, betrayals, scandals and breakups.
Liberation from energy binding does not mean a break or attenuation of feelings. On the contrary, love addiction is the main threat to a happy relationship. By eradicating this, you can strengthen your feeling, which will bring even more positive emotions, love and respect. We wish you a great mood, family well-being and mutual feelings. be happy and don't forget to press the buttons and
What can I do to make my man prosperous and successful? How to fill it with your energy to accomplish significant things?
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These questions have always appeared and continue to arise among women. And it doesn’t matter whether a woman develops or not - she always wants to become that change in a man’s life, that key that will unlock his potential, so that with her the man becomes strong and powerful.
Until some time, it seemed that fulfilling a man meant being faithful, caring, preparing food for him, not teaching him how to live, praying for him. All this supposedly helps a man receive subtle energy from a woman and become stronger. But after hundreds of prayers read, gourmet soups and perfectly starched shirts, not all men feel fulfilled and still remain in their usual positions, with the same salary and the same attitude towards their woman.
And then the woman asks the following question:
What am I doing wrong?
Few people actually understand what it is like to truly fill a man. And how do you understand that your man is filled with you?
In this article I will analyze the topic on three levels: physical, psychological and energetic. Want to clear this up for yourself?
So what we'll talk about:
- Why do this at all - fill a man?
- Which men can be filled and which ones cannot?
- How women fill up by filling men is a tricky question 😉
- How does the process of filling a man happen?
- 9 surefire ways to fill up your man
Why fill a man
We enter into relationships in order to receive certain energy from our partner, giving our own. Relationships are always an exchange of energy. Couples are initially formed in order to exchange energy, gain important experience and understand their strength. So, for example, only in a relationship with a man does a woman most fully discover her deep sense of sexuality, sensuality, orgasmicity, motherhood, generic power, and feminine wisdom. When we look at a man, we do not want him, but what will happen to us when we are next to him.
We always desire not people, but the states that we experience next to them.
This is also true for men: men fall in love with the energy and the state that they experience next to a woman. By filling a man with certain states and energies, a woman receives in return what she needs. Namely:
- Filling him with strength and aspirations, she shapes his external activities, which subsequently generate income, which the man gives to the woman 😉 Or it could be power, fame, popularity.
- Filling a man with tender love, she receives security and care from him in return.
- Filling a man with her sexuality and sensuality, she gives him energy to powerfully move forward, and in return he brings her to the pedestal with him.
- Filling a man with her negativity and fears and claims, she destroys his potential and capabilities.
A man, as you know, personifies the empty vector principle. It's like a directional arrow without movement, in a static state. And a woman is the principle of energy, strength without direction. When meeting a man, she fills his vector with energy - and he begins to move in his own direction.
It is important to understand: a man’s direction vector is an initial unit that cannot be corrected, changed or adjusted by a woman. Only the man himself can do this.
Thus, if a man’s vector is aimed at destruction or destructive activity, and a woman fills it, then they will move in this direction together. No matter how much a woman would like to, she does not determine the path of a man’s movement. She can only reveal his potential and give him the strength to realize his ideas. It can be explained this way: a man is an idea, and a woman is the force to fulfill this idea. So if a man is an evil genius, then a strong woman, filling him, will give him the potential to destroy the whole world, just as the wife of a pious figure, filling her husband, will give him the opportunity to revive this world to spiritual purity.
Do not entertain the illusion that you determine the vector of a man’s development: we can only influence a man’s ideological concepts for a short time, but he determines his vector himself. This is why it is always recommended to look at a man's values and ideas in life. We must understand what we invest our strength in, what structure we contribute to the creation and what karma we will then work off 😉
A man is a tool, and a woman is the force applied to make this tool work. A gun can serve as protection, and a knife can be used to operate on a person and give him life, but both of these items are weapons, no matter how you look at them.
Of course, the imposition of high-frequency female energy on the low-frequency vector of a man can partially neutralize its destructive potential, but will never completely change it. Moreover, a woman will spend a huge amount of energy just to support creativity in a man. For popular wisdom says: “No matter how much you feed a wolf, he still looks into the forest.”
Before you think about consciously filling a man, ask yourself:
- Do I like what he does?
- Do I like his development ideas?
- Do I agree with his goals and plans?
- Am I interested in following him? Do I like the map of his path?
- Am I ready to be responsible for realizing what he will do in this world?
- Is his activity built on the joy of other people or on their pain?
There are a number of activities that have a destructive effect on the entire family - for example, trading in alcohol, drugs, materials that destroy consciousness, deception and manipulation of people's feelings. This kind of money has its own energy, and it destroys the life of not only a man, but also his woman, who sponsors it on a subtle level.
In addition, by filling a man, we strengthen his qualities.
What kind of women can fill and with what?
It always seems that there are women who fill men up and those who don't. But this is not true.
Every woman fulfills a man. The only question is, what exactly?
With what you are filled with.
If a woman is in , does not know how to accept, then she fills the man with claims and discontent, and on this energy he will build his business. As you understand, everything will not be easy for him: he will find himself in unpleasant situations at work, there may be conflicts with his superiors, or he will not be valued enough as an employee, his efforts will not be compensated with money, he will need to work a lot in order to get results .
If a woman is dissatisfied with a man, if she does not believe in what he is doing, if she wishes him pain and suffering in retaliation for inattention to her or insults inflicted, then she fills him with the energy of destruction. Such a man will not succeed; every rise will be followed by a fall. Or on one front - growth, and on the other - degradation.
An ambitious woman fills a man with zeal forward, but if there is no softness, love and tenderness in her, but only “come on, you can do it” - he will burn out on the way up and sooner or later he will fall with exhaustion.
There is also a layer of categorical women who know what should be and how it should be. Such people do everything right and demand the same from a man, not allowing him to expand his boundaries. Their man can even run a small business, but the lack of novelty will be compensated by overeating, fanatical sports or something else: they will look for any opportunity to ground the excess potential.
By filling a man with pity, a woman completely deprives him of his strength. Then the man moves forward very slowly, and his relationships with other men will develop poorly.
By filling a man with faith, love and her sexuality, a woman gives him unlimited abilities to move forward and reach the top. This is the level of fulfillment that I propose to strive for and learn from. To become a creative and fulfilling woman, you first need to understand your own fulfillment.
Test yourself
A woman’s creative power is made up of several factors.
Adoption
She knows how to ask and receive, while experiencing lightness, joy and gratitude.
Pleasure
She knows how to enjoy her life, her body, communication and everything that every new day brings her.
Sexuality
She loves sex, enters into sexual intimacy with pleasure and pleasure, develops as a lover, studies her body and receives pleasure from it, looks with adoration not only at a man, but also at his symbol of masculinity 😉 A woman’s sexual energy is the most powerful filling, therefore By working on our natural deep sexuality, we awaken the main power plant of our body, which gives energy not only to us, but also to a man.
Wildness and courage
She is not afraid to show emotions, to allow herself to be relaxed and natural in her expressions. She can be spontaneous and wild in her desires, comes up with something new and wants more joy from life. The phrase “come on” is one of her favorites 🙂 The process of life captivates her, she is interested in many things.
Own way
She has her own path, her own boundaries, her own interests and aspirations. She doesn't live other people's lives because her life is interesting.
Unconditional love
Perhaps the main factor. Only by unconditionally loving herself with her strength and weakness can a woman love a man and fill him with abundance, give him a crazy reserve of strength. If a woman does not love herself, but supposedly loves a man, then this brings him nothing but destruction, because she takes his life force, she takes love from him.
There are many other factors: permission, emotionality... but they are rather secondary and are formed on the basis of these main ones.
Look inside and answer these questions:
- Can I enjoy myself?
- Can I ask and accept with ease, without the expectation of having to pay for it?
- How am I doing with accepting my sexuality? Do I know my body? Do I know how to please him and make myself feel good? Do I get high from sex?
- When was the last time I got carried away with something and did spontaneous, crazy things without regard for those around me?
- When was the last time I felt energy ringing through my body and this feeling made me want to dance and laugh?
Be honest with yourself and look at what you fill your man with and what you fill yourself with.
Male filling condition
Before exploring filling methods, I want to emphasize a basic rule. It sounds like this: without feelings, nothing will happen. Even if you start doing everything on this list every day, but you don’t love a man, respect him and believe in him, nothing will work. Often it is the beautiful, ideal, good wives that do not fill a man, but rather some mistress or girl from work who looks at him as if she were God.
It is not the one who only feeds the body and irons shirts that fills. And the one who believes in him loves out of abundance and experiences joy from it. Filled by a woman who gets high from communicating with this person.
We fill our men not because it is a duty, not because it is necessary, not because we want to be a good wife and be guaranteed to have a good future. We fill because we love, because he is our choice, because he is our mirror and we love him as much as ourselves.
This is the first and main point: I love him and I believe in him.
Be honest with yourself, without this development is impossible. Answer yourself frankly: do you love him? Even a bit? Do you have this feeling that makes your chest feel lighter and wider? Or maybe there are resentments there? Fears? Claims? Expectations? Do you really believe in him?
Probably many have come across this story, and you can skip it, but for those who have not read it, I will repeat it. The story of Henry Ford and his wife, from the book by Dorothy Carnegie.
“In the late nineties of the last century, a young mechanic worked for an electrical company for $11 a week. He worked 10 hours a day. When he came home, he often worked half the night in his barn, trying to invent a new type of engine.
His father, a farmer, was sure that the young man was wasting his time. The neighbors thought he was crazy. Everyone laughed at him, and no one believed that anything would come of him. Nobody but his wife. She helped him work in the barn at night. In winter, when it got dark early, she would hold a kerosene lamp over him. Her hands were turning blue, her teeth were chattering from the cold. But she believed so much that his engine would work that he nicknamed her the Believer.
After three years of backbreaking work in an old brick barn, they finally achieved their goal. This happened in 1893, shortly before the inventor's thirtieth birthday.
One day, neighbors heard strange sounds coming from the barn. Running to the windows, they saw how this eccentric, Henry Ford, and his wife were shaking along the road in a carriage without a horse: the carriage was rolling by itself! They managed to reach the corner and turn back towards the barn. The motor was running.
That evening, a new industry was born - the automobile, which was destined to become the leading industry in the United States. And if Henry Ford can be called the father of the automobile industry, then Mrs. Ford is undoubtedly the mother of this industry.
50 years later, Henry Ford, who believed in reincarnation, was asked what he would like to be in his next life. “I don’t care at all,” he replied, “the main thing is that my wife is next to me.” For the rest of his life, he called her Believer and wanted to spend eternity with her.
Every man needs such a believing woman who is nearby when circumstances are not very successful. When everything goes wrong, everything falls out of hand, a man needs a woman who will support his self-confidence, letting him know that nothing will shake her faith in him. And if his wife doesn’t believe in him, then who will believe him?”
And do not begin the practice of filling a man until the desire is born within you to see your man as the ruler of his personal empire. Only then can you master the first filling point.
Finally, the most interesting thing :)
Filling process
Energy exchange and filling always occurs at different levels. It is desirable that within the couple there is an exchange of energy on each of them.
Sight
I was always offended by movie phrases: “Darling, I believe in you, you will succeed, you’re a hero!” As it turns out, they offend men even more and make them doubt their abilities. A man and a woman are so strongly connected energetically that they feel each other from the inside, and no matter how beautiful the words are, if they are insincere, they have no power.
Develop strength, learn to look at your man as no one looks at him. You can practice this way: imagine your man at the peak of his achievements: he is strong, powerful, intelligent, wise, he has a lot of masculine energy, his shoulders are straight and his posture is even, next to him are you, his muse and his beloved, his inner strength . He is the king of his empire. Just imagine it. It is important for you to see not external pathos, but the inner strength of your man in this role, how mature, courageous, strong he is, he can do anything. And after feeling this inside for a few seconds, look at him as if he was already like this, see him like this now. Meet his eyes as if you met there, at the top, being next to him. This is a short glance, a meeting of the eyes, through which an impulse of power passes. He will definitely ask why you are looking at him like that, but there is no need to answer - just smile, kiss his hand or back as a sign of his strength.
You can practice different views.
- A look of power that awakens the energy to create in a man.
- The look of passion, when you find the sexiest features in him, remember, get turned on and then just look at him, this look can be longer.
- A look of acceptance: when a man needs emotional support, but cannot be pitied, we look at him with an accepting gaze, as if saying: “I understand that you are hurt, and you have the right to experience these emotions and feel pain, I still love you and I believe in you, tomorrow you will get up and go again, but now you can be in this, I accept you like that.”
There can be many views - this is the personal language of the couple, in which there can be no misunderstandings, everything is always clear in it. We women always see a man's gaze if he desires us, and men always see admiration in a woman's gaze if she really believes in him.
Embrace
When we hug with loved ones, the hormone oxytocin is released, thanks to which we truly feel warmth and tenderness. This hormone creates a sense of community and connection. It is also produced during breastfeeding, which bonds mother and baby on a hormonal and chemical level.
“Oxytocin is a neuropeptide that promotes feelings like attachment, trust and connection,” says psychologist Matt Hertenstein. “Interaction with other people is truly based on biological processes.”
By sincerely hugging a man, we nourish his heart chakra, make him mentally more stable, give him a sense of strength, but this requires real long hugs every day. You can start such a tradition in your family - hugging tightly before going to bed or, conversely, in the morning. You can cuddle up to your loved one in bed, hug him tightly, stroke each other, bask in each other's arms. You will both feel that your hearts are becoming softer and kinder, opening up to each other even more.
A survey was conducted among Americans that revealed a surprising dependence. If spouses hug and touch each other frequently, their marriage will last longer than in families where physical contact is kept to a minimum.
Massage
A woman’s hands carry a huge amount of energy, which is why bodily specialists - cosmetologists, massage therapists, manicurists - must be chosen very carefully: through her hands a woman shares her energy and fills everything she comes into contact with.
When the hands of a beloved woman stroke and massage a man’s shoulders, head, and feet, it fills him with strength and energy and binds him to the woman. In addition, massage promotes the production of endorphins - hormones of happiness. , in my opinion, is the most powerful energy practice for filling a man and awakening yang energy in him.
Blessings
This is a powerful high-frequency filling for a man: when a woman blesses him for a good day, for solving all matters, for productive cooperation.
I think there is no need to remind you that the most important thing is the state that a woman experiences in relation to her man. As they say, God sees both the hand and the heart of the giver.
Sex
Sexual intimacy in our time is the most accessible way to actively and powerfully fill a man, but, unfortunately, it works according to certain rules. It's not enough to just make love to a man.
Remember: a man is filled by giving, and a woman by receiving, so a man receives the most powerful fulfillment through sex when a woman receives physical and emotional pleasure from sex, a particularly powerful burst of energy is the female orgasm. It is not enough to be a skilled lover - you also need to be a woman, so at the beginning of this article I wrote that only a woman who is aware of her sexuality and pleasure can be very fulfilling.
The brighter a woman’s pleasure from sex with a man, the higher the level of fulfillment. Ancient treatises on sexual intimacy recommend kissing during orgasm so that the energy does not leave through a cry, but is looped in the bodies of partners, thus during orgasm the most powerful energy bridges - the genitals and mouth - are connected, and the energy remains in the energy field of the couple. You can also whisper words of love during orgasm - this will also fill your partner.
Filling through sex occurs when a woman gives herself to a man with emotions, psyche and body, that is, if during an orgasm you think about something else, then the energy will go to the one you are thinking about. Keep this in mind :)
Fury
Surprised? You probably thought that rage and aggressive emotions destroy relationships. I'll explain.
There is a women’s practice that we study in face-to-face trainings, it is called “Preventive Hysteria.” A woman does this practice to shake up a man, to give him a little creative stress, so it is carried out exclusively when there is love for a man inside a woman, and her rage is only an external manifestation. In this state, a woman can swear without destroying a man, just as vice versa - she can remain silent with hatred and destroy a man’s energy field.
Preventive hysteria has its own rules: it is carried out when there is no negativity inside, in the required place and time, taking into account the man’s temperament, and after it the woman quickly switches to calm and positivity. The scheme of a preventive hysteria is something like this: emotions - praise - reproach - emotions - shutdown.
An example of a preventive hysteria
For example, a man promises to fix the kitchen, but every time he puts it off, procrastinates, becomes lazy and doesn’t take good care of the house. The woman chooses the moment when he is at home, when he does not need to rush anywhere, when he is full and in more or less adequate condition. She checks that there is a feeling of love inside her, makes a deliberately angry appearance, jumps out into the room where her man is, and gives out the first stage, that is, emotions:
I can’t do this anymore... But what is this!
You are a smart and strong man, all my life I admired the way you keep the house, I always thought that I was luckier than anyone in the world - it is important to cite as an example exactly those qualities that a man has, even if they are small.
But what now? The handle on the bathroom door is loose, the faucet is leaking...
And again emotions:
Lord, where is my husband, with whom I have always been like behind a stone wall!
And here it’s important to leave without listening to anything, you can even cry prophylactically :)
As the experience of participants in live trainings shows, at first preventive hysterics end with the previous point - sex :) And then with fixing taps and doors.
This practice can be used not only for business, but also to enable awareness in a man:
I married you because I always knew that you were stronger and wiser than me, I always felt the strength in you, and I don’t understand what the devil is going on with your life now!
Yes, for greater effect, you can use abusive, harsher words.
Preventive hysteria is an art, and I recommend attending a training to learn how to do it without consequences, without losing yourself in negative emotions.
Food
Cooking is a sacred process, therefore in Slavic culture there are a huge number of rituals, spells and songs that are sung during the meal in order to fill it with the necessary vibrations. Our foremothers kneaded the dough and said that they were: love, health, prosperity, good relationships, passion and desire 🙂 And since then nothing has changed: food is still a source of not only physical fulfillment, but also energy.
Not every woman in the modern world has the opportunity to cook three times a day for her man, but let you have your own personal recipes for strength with which you fill your loved one. And while you are preparing this dish, you should only think about him, about his success, about his well-being, about how the family will reach a new level. No, don’t dream - already see it and mix it into food. When a man takes such food, he is filled with what the woman put into it.
Food nourishes feelings and when a husband and wife feed each other from their hands, there is so much warmth and tenderness in this. It is important to remember that a woman can only feed a man with her right hand.
Construction
Several years ago I studied at a fairly famous business school. I never turned out to be a businessman :) But I learned a lot of tricks that are perfect for use in relationships to make them fulfilling and deep.
In large network marketing there is the concept of “building”. It looks something like this. A man comes on stage and says:
Now I want to introduce you to a man who changed not only my life, but also the lives of thousands of people, he has an extraordinary mind, deep wisdom, and most importantly, a huge and kind human heart beats inside him. Countless people in this room can tell stories of their growth when this person came into their lives, but you better hear it all from him himself! It is with great joy that I would like to introduce you to everyone I love...
The construction contains a cool idea: when a person talks about himself, it always looks like a farce, but when another person talks about him with admiration, it inspires trust and affection. And besides this, it fills the personality with the energy of a large number of people at once.
I do not recommend introducing a man to the rank of God - just telling others real facts about him, adding a little color and emotion to them 😉 It is advisable that your beloved be somewhere nearby - for example, you can come to a company and tell your friends about him recent achievement and add how proud you are of it. Social status and role in the eyes of friends and co-workers are extremely important to a man, and such practices by his woman will thicken and increase his social field. And you will have a completely different feeling from your partner, because when a man begins to tighten his social energy among friends, the level of testosterone in the blood increases sharply, and this, as you know, is the hormone of sexual activity and passion 😉 So in the end they will be satisfied All.
The formation can be done in front of your children - it is very effective for education. I had a consultation with an amazingly wise woman who was raising three daughters, and she had a daily practice: telling her daughters about what good things their father gives them in life, how he works for them, how he loves them and tries for them. And every day when he came home from work, they said words of gratitude to him! Imagine how a man feels at this time when four women thank him for his efforts? 🙂
Life
You probably already know and practice this point - it applies to everything: washing clothes, ironing shirts and trousers. We can do a lot of things for our man at home and think about him with faith and love, imagine how he conquers the world in these shirts - and then he will be saturated with your energy and strength. This, by the way, is always visible when a woman watches a man’s clothes: such men have an energy density, they seem to be under a protective field.
These are the main filling methods, tested and effective.
You may ask why I don’t talk about prayers? The story is too complicated... Prayer is high-frequency energy on the upper chakras. For solving material matters, it can be destructive and destructive. We’ll talk about prayers separately sometime.
How to understand that a man is full
If a man has an adequate masculine perception of the world and is filled with his woman, then:
- He will have the strength to solve all matters
- He will strive forward and discover new things
- His financial potential will increase
- Sex life will improve qualitatively and quantitatively
- He will have higher expectations for his future and the future of his family.
- He will be calm and confident
- People around him will respect him
All this works only if the man’s vector is creative.
If a man is in destructive programs, and a woman fills him, this can lead to the following:
- Boorish behavior towards a woman
- Attempts to suppress and humiliate a woman
- Rough sex without taking into account the woman's needs
- Male illnesses and weakness
- Constant aggression and irritation of a man towards others
- Uncontrollable emotional behavior
- The desire to distance yourself from a woman or even cheat on her with another woman who has a different energy
This is an indicator: your energies are too different, and your strength destroys a man.
I will give an example from my practice as an instructor. If a girl has some dormant diseases of the reproductive system, she may not even know about them and live in peace, but thanks to active wumbling exercises, the work of the lymph flow improves, blood flows to the pelvic organs and actively circulates there, regenerating all tissues, which begins to awaken and open dormant sores so that they can be healed. It’s the same with a man: if there are destructive scenarios inside a man and a woman fills him with strength, then a lot of unpleasant things will come out - but it’s not a fact that it will heal over time.
Fill a worthy man with great potential with your strength! Fill a man who can be reciprocal and in return for your filling will bring you prosperity, care and protection, because you are worth it 😉
In a wonderful moment, when suddenly love conquers us, we feel an extraordinary uplift, delight, joy. We see the world “through rose-colored glasses” and the world seems to us filled with happiness, the colors are brighter, the sun is hotter, the grass is greener. We are ready to share our joy with everyone we meet; we radiate light and love to everything around us. And it doesn’t matter that we don’t look like normal people, and those around us don’t always understand us.
What happened at this happy moment? A person whose energy coincided in amplitude and vibration with our energy was a catalyst for many processes occurring in our body. We “caught” its wave, and our own energy surged and rose to the highest energy centers - the Anahata chakra (heart center) and the Vishuddha chakra (emotional center). When a large amount of energy enters the Anahata chakra, we first of all feel the heartbeat, it becomes faster, we feel either hot or cold. This is where these poetic words about a wildly beating heart or its brief stop at the moment when love comes from. When energy impacts the emotional energy center, we feel a flurry of emotions. Further, when the energy rises to the brain and engages the Ajna chakra - the Third Eye, as well as additional energy centers responsible for the production of endorphins, we feel dizzy and intoxicated. Extraordinary lightness throughout the body, a “transparent” state, those very “rose-colored glasses” through which we see the world with loving eyes, a feeling of crystal purity and bliss. Often these sensations are so strong that they literally knock us off our feet, deprive us of the possibility of analytical thinking, distort logical thinking, we stop being critical of the people around us, we see only the good in everything, we forgive our enemies and generally do not notice resentment. And when it comes to the “object of tender passion,” we generally lose criticism; we are ready to see only the good in all his actions, justify his imperfections, and even his shortcomings are seen as advantages to us.
Unfortunately, mutual love does not happen as often as we would like. Over time, you may discover that your lover does not feel the same way that you feel, his heart does not beat faster at the sight of your bright face, he does not feel hot at the sound of your voice, and in general you are in love, but he only allows himself to be loved.
But while you are burning, this is not so important to you, the main thing for you is that your loved one is nearby, so that you can see him, hear him, feel him. And this is natural, since only in his presence, because of the attention directed to you (and more so because of the attention that you direct to him), the same energy flows through your connection, which is a stimulus for raising your own energy and , as a consequence, experiencing all these extraordinary sensations.
A person in love, dependent on the supply of a constant portion of the internal drug, becomes more resilient and healthier, because endorphins are also universal medicines and are unusually useful and beneficial for the body, unlike artificial drugs.
Since the emotional energy center is constantly fed with energy, creative abilities awaken in the lover, as is known - the Vishuddha chakra is responsible for creativity.
This is why many poets, musicians, and artists constantly need the feeling of falling in love in order to create fruitfully. Love, bright, glowing, giving a lot of energy and endorphins is their muse!
Why does love also bring suffering? Why does a person in love easily fall into depression, and only a new sign of attention from a loved one can bring him back to life and flight? Everything is explained surprisingly simply - in each of us there is a whole hostel of entities and negative programs and complexes. We tend to doubt everything - that's how we are as people. Under the influence of a high level of energy, complexes and programs can be activated, and then suffering arises - jealousy, doubt, suspicion, etc. Energy decreases, as these negatives absorb it and we, having fallen out of a blissful state, feel a loss of strength, melancholy and suffering. But as soon as we receive the slightest sign of attention from our lover, everything begins anew, and we again soar to the stars!
As you already know, energy is transmitted through directed attention. And if you want to maintain a joyful and happy relationship with your lover - remember - be sure to pay attention to him! Don’t let things get to the point of suffering; suffering can be a tool for manipulating a person who is in love with you. If your lover is dear to you, pay him attention, give him your energy, support the fire of his love for you!
Along with questions about how to free yourself from energy bindings, magicians are often asked how, on the contrary, to strengthen them, and whether it is possible to do this independently and safely. The answer is - it is possible! I will be only glad if the practices that I give you are useful to you. I once received them myself from my teachers, and now I am happy to tell the readers of my blog about them. So, how to establish a strong energetic connection with your loved one? There are many ways to do this, and not necessarily magical ones. The main thing is to know the basic principle of the formation and existence of these connections.
At the moment of acquiring a new relationship or to maintain existing ones, you need to invest your inner warmth and energy into them. Each person has his own “account” in the “bank of emotions” of another person. It is on this principle that all relationships between people are based. You are for me, and I am for you. Any relationship is a mutually beneficial cooperation between two partners. Whether you like it or not, you need to accept this axiom so that you can move forward successfully.
The main tool in creating or strengthening an energetic connection is the subconscious.
Plus, of course, you will need some patience. The material world is inert and slow to change, so it takes time to fulfill your desire. To do this, allocate at least five to ten minutes a day. The best time for this is at night, when you have already gone to bed and closed your eyes. Another favorable time is the morning, when you have just woken up and have not yet had time to open your eyes. In this relaxed state, you are between sleep and wakefulness. At this moment, the gates of the subconscious are most open to influence.
1. Merger. Imagine your lover standing in front of you. Unite with him in complete love, let your imagination merge your bodies and souls into one. Penetrate each other, connect every cell of your bodies, become one whole at the energy level. Imagine that real diffusion of your cells has occurred. You penetrated each other with your whole body, your whole being. Now imagine that rose and lotus petals are falling on you from the sky and surrounding you with a magical, beautiful aroma. Both of you are engulfed in a golden and green glow that gets brighter and brighter. This light becomes so bright that it floods everything around. At the moment of visualization, it is necessary to maintain concentration on the Anahata (heart) chakras, and at the moment of unification on Svadhisthana (the area below the navel), and also evoke a feeling of love, tenderness and interpenetration. This will replenish your emotional “balance” in your partner’s account and will constantly refresh your feelings.
In real life, do not forget to replenish this balance by giving your lover various nice things and gifts, massages and various services, this strengthens the relationship and adds love.
2. Love telepathy. How to convey to your partner the necessary thoughts, feelings and emotions about you and your harmonious union. To do this, take a photo of the person to whom you want to convey your “message”. If you don’t have a photograph, you can draw an object on paper, write its name and date of birth. Try to feel his presence. All people constantly unconsciously receive and emit subtle information in the form of energy impulses-waves. Everyone is on their own wavelength. To tune in to the wave of the person you want to attach to you, you need to focus on him and feel him nearby.
- plunge into a light trance and relax your body muscles;
- look carefully at the photograph (drawing) of this person, 1-3 minutes. Focus on it;
- close your eyes, imagine it very vividly and realistically;
- mentally say the words that you want to convey to him;
- imagine how your thoughts move to the frontal chakra, Ajna (third eye, area of the bridge of the nose) and radiate from there in the form of a golden ray of energy;
- this golden ray reaches this person, penetrates through his third eye into his head and is fixed there with light, bright - yours! - images.
It sounds difficult, but in fact it is all easy, especially if you practice. The time to perform this practice is 5 minutes every day. To make the effect stronger, you can do this 3 times a day.
3. "Night mail". Forming energy connections during sleep is especially effective. Therefore, you can transmit your thoughts and images when he (she) is sleeping. When a person sleeps, during REM sleep, the conscious mind exchanges information with the subconscious. At the same time, programming of the brain occurs (behavior, instincts, metabolism). At this time, the words you put into his mental stream will be very powerful.
4. Solar circle. Helps ignite the flame of love in the heart of the one you like.
This practice can be done anytime and anywhere if you want to win the heart of your loved one. Performed in close contact or at a far distance. Works for both men and women. It is also advisable to perform it at night, when your lover is sleeping.
- close your eyes and imagine both of you in a certain outlined circle, the boundaries of which can be any;
- imagine the shining Sun above you;
- now focus on the feelings of love for this person;
- put all your love and your image into this Sun;
- then order the Sun to fly to this person, penetrate into his very heart and kindle a fiery love for you there;
- hold the Sun and your image in its heart for 3-5 minutes;
- imagine that the boundaries of the circle have moved a little, thus bringing this person closer to you. Then let go of the vision.
Repeat daily for 28 days and soon you will notice that the person has become indifferent to you.
It works very effectively and is not a love spell. The sun does not leave negative consequences and the love from the sun is strong and pure.
By the way, all the practices listed above are not a love spell. They work exclusively on the energy of desire and intention. Which, in general, is, in essence, the magic that every person owns. Well, if something suddenly doesn’t work out, you don’t have enough patience or time, then you can always entrust the fulfillment of your desires to professionals.
Good luck!
Surely you have noticed that any lover behaves differently from an ordinary person. A sparkle appears in the eyes of the lucky person, he becomes talkative and witty, begins to write poetry, paintings or music... It’s all about the energy that a person in love emits, says bioenergy therapist Viktor ZORIN.
— Viktor Semenovich, many of your articles are devoted to the energy of love. Does this bright feeling really have its own energy?
Everything has energy. And the feelings that we experience, be it fear, envy, jealousy or tenderness, are no exception. Another thing is that not all people know how to love, not everyone is given this. And if there is no love, then there is no energy.
- What, not all people are given the gift of love?
Of course, not everyone. Aren't you surprised that not all people have an ear for music or mathematical abilities? Loving is the same individual human ability. And many of us are unable to love, not because they are stupid or defective, but God created them that way. Such people experience love, affection, gratitude for another person, but cannot love.
- Does the energy of a loving person differ in any way from the energy of, let’s say, an ordinary person?
Undoubtedly. After all, love rebuilds the body, completely changing our energy parameters. It does not matter at all whether the feeling of love is mutual or unrequited. The energy of love intensifies all other feelings and emotions, changes the perception of the world, awakens previously dormant abilities.
- Isn’t this dangerous for mental health?
In most cases, love heals a person, heals the body, and improves immunity. The lucky one begins to compose poems and songs, smile, and emit some special light. A loving person even sees the world around him more colorful and bright, noticing all the nuances and feeling the slightest changes. The world itself, as it were, helps him realize his desires, because the high energy of love attracts many favorable opportunities to a person.
But if you don’t cope with the increased level of energy, you can burn out or even burn out completely. Thank God, intuitively each of us knows how much energy he needs, and calmly gives its excess to others.
- And the energy of love itself can increase or decrease depending on our actions and deeds?
Certainly. Our thoughts and actions either feed this energy or, on the contrary, weaken it. For example, the energy of love does not tolerate restrictions on freedom and blackmail. Situations like “If you love me, you will definitely buy a new car” or “If you care about me, then you will no longer meet with your friends”, “Choose: either me or football” weaken the energy of love. In addition, any restrictions on one’s own freedom are also not good. “I love her, so I won’t drink beer anymore, because she asked me to,” “I hate vacuuming, but I’ll do it for her.” They lead to the accumulation of fatigue and irritation and, as a result, a decrease in energy and a gradual loss of love. Another option is also possible: loving people will not be able to live together, they will separate and love each other at a distance, regretting all their lives that they could not get along.
- What else reduces the energy of love and kills the feeling itself?
Irritability and dissatisfaction with the partner. If you don't like a guy or girl, it's better not to start a family with them. You will not be able to re-educate your partner, therefore, irritation and anger will be your constant companions. Sooner or later they will “devour” love, no matter how strong it may be. See what happens when we get angry. A person does not like the actions of his partner, and he begins to think that he is acting incorrectly, incorrectly. Hence, constant thoughts about incorrect or untimely actions, which cause feelings of irritation and dissatisfaction, provoke resentment and mutual misunderstanding. He dresses wrong, he speaks wrong, he gets the wrong money... Just dissatisfaction and no joy. But it should be exactly the opposite. I will give you an example of one of my friends - Nina Ivanovna. This sweet, intelligent 45-year-old woman has a husband who is as in love with her as he was in his youth, and two beautiful children who adore their mother. Once a young employee Katya, who had recently gotten married, said to Nina Ivanovna:
How lucky you are with your husband, there are no such things now! And your mother-in-law is a wonderful woman. Well, why are some people so lucky, but I got a lazy husband and my mother-in-law hates me?
I just love and respect my husband very much,” answered the wise woman. - I try to see only the good and not notice the bad. Admire him at every opportunity.
She gave the following example to prove her words. “When we got married, I asked Igor to wash the dishes, and I decided to clean the room myself. He agreed. I quickly cleaned the room and looked into the kitchen. My first instinct was to kick my husband out of the kitchen and do everything myself, but I quickly returned to the room and wiped the dust again to calm down. Maybe this is how they wash dishes in his house? Maybe this is the first time he's doing the dishes for me? I calmed down, and when Igor finished his work, I sincerely thanked him and kissed him. Since then I have never watched him wash dishes. And my husband liked doing it. That's how we live. He washes the dishes, and I sincerely admire him.
Of course, my husband, like every other person, has his shortcomings. But they don't annoy me, and I try not to pay attention to them. If you give vent to irritation, dissatisfaction or a bad mood, it’s a lost cause. You will start to quarrel, hate each other, and then divorce is not far away. It's the same with mother-in-law. She and I are very different people, but I treat her with respect and gratitude - she gave birth to and raised the person I love. She feels it and reciprocates my feelings.”
- It turns out that love itself does not make us happy?
Absolutely right. We must try not to ruin it with our own stupidity and immoderate ambitions, and then we can say that life is a success.
- Why does love come to a person most often in youth?
Because at this time our energy is most mobile. Even in the most unfavorable case, the energetic impact of love (especially the first) remains with us for life, revealing new talents and abilities in someone.
It often happens that a loving person is very finely attuned to the object of his love, perceiving his desires and thoughts even before he expresses everything in words. Let me give you an example of this story: a girl fell in love with a young man, and she began to have strange dreams. She felt like a man, served in the army, traveled to other countries, won sports competitions. After she married her beloved, it turned out that she saw his life in her dreams.
Often loving people feel and know what is happening with their other halves. The energy of one person tunes into the energy of the second and experiences all events with him (some people tune in very well, to the point that they know where a person is and what he is doing, others can only feel their emotional state).
- Oh, it’s just some kind of clairvoyance. This is not far from mind reading.
You shouldn't be laughing. Sometimes loving people reveal such abilities that you wouldn’t believe... I once had the opportunity to work with a man who simply adored his wife. At some point in their life together, he developed unusual abilities: if he wanted to see what his wife was doing now, he closed his eyes - and he always saw it.
- It’s good that they loved and had nothing to hide from each other. Otherwise it would have been difficult for these two.
Yes, and each of us should strive for such relationships. When there is nothing to hide and when you feel your partner at a distance and without words...
Interviewed by Sergei BORODIN
