14.10.2013 | 20:29
Today we will talk about how to behave in a cemetery - how to behave correctly in a cemetery. What does right mean? This means that there are special laws that everyone must follow. Failure to comply with these laws leads to dire consequences for the one who made the mistake. As they say, ignorance of the laws is no excuse.
There are certain rules of behavior in the cemetery. There is nothing sophisticated or complicated about them; they are very simple and obvious things to many. However, as a practicing magician, I meet people who have problems precisely because of violation of these rules of behavior in the cemetery. Therefore, I decided to write this article.
There will be no special rituals or practices in it - the article is intended for ordinary people who are far from practicing magic.
I will answer questions about how to properly care for the dead, what can and cannot be done in the cemetery, what to bring with you to the dead and what can be taken from him, how to care for the grave, etc. In general, these are ordinary things that, once you read about them, you will never be mistaken in the future.
So, how to behave correctly in a cemetery. You come to visit your dead relatives and friends at the cemetery in order to honor their memory. These are usually pre-planned trips, so you may well be prepared for such a trip.
Rule of behavior at the cemetery No. 1 - properly prepare for a trip to the cemetery
First of all, pay attention to your clothes. Perhaps short skirts and trendy coral color suit you, but! You are not coming to show off yourself, but to honor the dead. The colors of the cemetery are black and white. Black is preferable, as it is also considered a mourning color. If you find it difficult to find suitable clothes in these colors, then simply do not dress brightly. The dead don't like bright colors.
Choose muted tones from your wardrobe. 
In addition (and this is especially important!) your legs should be completely covered - pants or a long floor-length skirt will be the most appropriate clothing. This is not a fashion, this is a rule of conduct in a cemetery. This is exactly the moment that is fatal for many. Therefore, I repeat - your legs must be completely covered!
Never wear open shoes when visiting a cemetery. Always choose closed shoes, even if it's hot outside. As a last resort, take with you a replaceable pair of closed shoes, which you will put on before entering the cemetery and take off immediately upon leaving it.
The most extreme option for spontaneous trips to the cemetery when you are wearing sandals is to put regular shoe covers or plastic bags over your shoes. This is also true in humid weather when you are wearing shoes that get wet.
Why are closed legs and feet an undeniable rule of conduct in a cemetery? This is a property of the world, a property of dead energy, which many have heard about, but many do not use. “The dead draws the living along with it.”
This means that dead earth, dust from dead earth, settling on your body, leads to the imposition of dead energy on your living one. The property of the world is that the living sooner or later becomes dead, but the not dead becomes alive. Therefore, this energy will influence according to its natural property.
Usually, such an imposition of dead energy on a living person leads to illness in the latter. Which one exactly? Most often the legs suffer - heaviness, fatigue, congestion (in the circulation of blood and lymph in the legs).
But generally speaking, dead energy is deposited due to its gravity in the three lower energy centers (chakras), and the symptoms may correspond to disturbances in the functioning of each of them. I talk about this first of all because this is the most common mistake due to ignorance of the rules of how to behave in a cemetery.
Suppose you do not know about this rule of conduct in a cemetery, and your hair falls from your head onto the grave. What will happen? A certain mechanism is launched (the same one that magicians use for the above damage).
The consequences are that the dead person, on whose grave a hair has fallen, has access to your head, to your consciousness, to your mind. And now he can influence your thoughts, “whisper” something to you and so on; the saddest consequence of the fact that you can “earn money” in this way is a corresponding psychiatric diagnosis with all the consequences that come from it.
In addition, there is damage for which the victim’s hair is placed on the grave in a cross shape. This leads to the victim's fate changing in a negative direction. Therefore, be careful, because when combing, more than one hair may fall out, and suddenly these two hairs, according to the law of meanness, will fall on the grave just like that.
The same safety measures apply to any other biological material - do not spit on dead soil, and you should also not go to the toilet in the cemetery. If, excuse me, you feel the urge, go outside the cemetery to relieve yourself.
I’m also talking about those toilets that are located on the territory of the cemetery - you shouldn’t go there either. Toilets should be located behind the cemetery fence and nothing else; if the toilet is inside, then it is always the case that the living comes into contact with the dead.
In addition, in such toilets they often perform magic - for example, change is thrown into them. This little thing is thrown in for a reason. The one who takes this little thing for himself takes away with it any illness or poverty from the one who threw it off. Once it gets on your feces, it will work against your will, and you will have no idea where this came from.
Safety precautions when visiting a cemetery.
Spring has come, and many of you will soon go to the cemetery to take care of your family’s graves. Did you know that there are certain "safety precautions" for new churchyards?
Ignoring or not knowing these rules can lead to consequences that are sometimes very difficult to correct.
When planning to visit a cemetery, it is important to properly prepare for the visit.
First of all, pay attention to your clothes and shoes. The color scheme for clothing for visiting a cemetery is usually black. White clothing is also allowed. If your wardrobe does not have such color schemes, then try not to dress brightly - give preference to clothes in muted tones - the deceased do not like bright and variegated colors.
You must wear pants or a long skirt to ensure your legs are completely covered. Wearing shorts or a mini skirt is not acceptable!
In addition, you should not wear flip-flops, slippers or other open shoes. It is better to give preference to shoes, sneakers or other closed shoes without heels. It is unacceptable to wear high-heeled shoes to visit a cemetery.
If for some reason it is not convenient to walk in closed shoes, you can take replacement shoes with you. As a last resort, it is permissible to put shoe covers or plastic bags on your feet, which will then be immediately thrown into the trash.
Why is it important? Cemetery soil, dust from graves and paths between them - all this carries “dead energy.” When dead energy hits the body of a living person, it is superimposed on living energy. This usually leads to various ailments and painful conditions.
According to statistics, the legs most often suffer - fatigue appears, heaviness occurs, congestion occurs with impaired blood circulation and lymph flow, swelling increases, varicose veins develop, etc. and so on.
Pay attention to your head. Since ancient times, when visiting a cemetery, it was customary to tie a scarf around one's hair. Hair tends to fall out. Having fallen on the cemetery soil, your hair, like any other biomaterial, can attract various negativity to you. Therefore, do not comb your hair in the cemetery area.
You should also not spit in the cemetery and it is not recommended to go to the toilet. If you really feel the urge, it’s better to go out and do it outside the cemetery. Public toilets located on the territory of the cemetery should also not be visited. Toilets should be located outside the burial area.
It is also important to know that in cemetery toilets, shady specialists can blame other people’s illnesses, negative programs and troubles on visitors. Thus, after visiting such a toilet, you can receive an unexpected “gift” for yourself.
It is important to understand that dead energy is not only found underground and in graves. It is distributed everywhere within the cemetery fence, and if there is no fence or its integrity is broken, then this energy is also present outside the cemetery.
Many cemeteries have water sources - pumps, wells or taps. The water collected in them should only be used for cleaning and watering flowers and plants at the grave. You should not drink ‘ne water or wash your face with it - for these purposes you should bring water from home.
While in the cemetery territory, walk along special paths or paths. Never step on, step over, or jump over graves. This is not only disliked by the inhabitants of the world of the dead, but also unacceptable to the world of the living. In addition, the spirit of a restless person may follow you along the trail you left - this will also not lead to anything good.
Cemeteries are sacred places where the bodies of the deceased are buried. Even according to the laws of pagan states, tombs have always been considered sacred and inviolable. While on the territory of the cemetery, you must behave with respect towards the deceased and moderate expression of emotions. Don't be overly emotional.
Avoid laughing and crying. Suffering and lamentation are undesirable, since these emotions can cause the formation of a communication channel with the deceased, and the deceased can take the dying relative with him.
According to the rules of behavior of Orthodox Christians, when arriving at the grave of the deceased, one should light a candle (preferably a church candle) and perform a litiya (intense prayer). You can read special memorial prayers and an akathist for the repose of the deceased. Then you should be silent, remembering the deceased.
Saint John Chrysostom wrote: “Let us try, as much as possible, to help the departed, instead of tears, instead of sobs, instead of magnificent tombs - with our prayers, alms and offerings for them, so that in this way both they and we will receive the promised benefits.”
The most valuable and important thing that can be done for the departed is prayer for them. The deceased does not need a coffin or a monument - all this is a tribute to tradition. His ever-living soul has a great need for our constant prayer, since it itself cannot do this. That is why prayer for a deceased loved one, performed at home and at the grave of the deceased, is very important.
Remembrance in the Church provides special assistance to the deceased. Therefore, before visiting the grave of a deceased relative, it is recommended that one of his relatives go to church and submit a note with the name of the deceased for commemoration at the altar.
It is best if this is a commemoration at a proskomedia - in this case, during the service for the deceased, a piece is taken out of a special prosphora, and then, as a sign of washing away his sins, they are lowered into the Chalice with the Holy Gifts.
You should not eat food near the grave or in the cemetery, as particles of dead dust and dead energy can get inside. It is also recommended to pour vodka on the grave of the deceased - this insults his memory. The custom of leaving a piece of bread, a glass of vodka and sweets at the grave “for the deceased” is an echo of paganism. You should not leave food in the cemetery; it is better to give it to a beggar or a hungry person.
During a visit, in addition to remembering a loved one, it may be necessary to clean up his grave. When cleaning, it is important to remember that the dead do not like it when any things or what belongs to them are taken from the cemetery. Therefore, when removing garbage, picking off dried grass and fallen leaves at the grave, explain to the deceased that you are doing this only for the purpose of maintaining cleanliness.
And it is very important - if you took something from the grave, put something in return. While putting things in order and removing trash, visitors usually leave flowers or some kind of treat for the deceased. When removing a broken vase from a grave, replace it with a new one.
Usually, to restore order at the grave of a loved one, people take with them some rags and other equipment. It is important to know and always remember: the rags that you use to clean the cemetery should not be your personal old things that you no longer need, or the things of your loved ones!!!
Never wash or wipe monuments with old T-shirts, panties or socks, as well as any other personal items, or their scraps, if they belong to living people. For this purpose, it is better to purchase a set of disposable rags in the store, which can be thrown into the trash after cleaning.
This law also applies to other things brought from home. You should not take a broom to clean up the cemetery, even an old and no longer needed one that you used to clean your apartment, house, or area near your home. It is better to purchase a new broom from the store specifically for cleaning the cemetery, and leave it near the grave.
It is generally not recommended to take things from an apartment or house for a cemetery - it is better to buy flower vases, rags, dishes, etc. for these purposes in a store. It is allowed to bring the deceased from home only those things that only he used during his lifetime. For example, a favorite cup from which he drank (only he and no one else!), or a plate from which he liked to eat (only he and no one else!) can be brought and left at the grave.
Take back all the things you brought with you. If these are used rags, napkins and other garbage, throw it in the trash container. Do not throw or leave objects that may contain your biological material on dead ground.
Items that were in the cemetery should not be taken home. Leave all trash that was removed from the grave in the cemetery trash can. If something needs to be taken for some special reason (for example, something requires repair in other conditions), leave something in place of this thing, and then be sure to bring it back.
A photograph of the deceased cannot be taken home from the cemetery - it is better to bury it in the grave.
Sometimes a visitor may accidentally drop keys or any other object onto the cemetery ground. According to the laws of the cemetery, a thing that fell on the dead earth belongs to the dead. Therefore, if you are not sorry for this thing, leave it there or throw it in the trash bin on the territory. If you need this thing, then when you pick it up and take it with you, you should put something else in its place. This could be candy, cookies or some other treat.
It is definitely never recommended under any circumstances for pregnant women, nursing mothers, women with babies and women on their menstrual periods to approach the cemetery and go inside.
A pregnant woman cannot visit a cemetery for any purpose or for any reason, even:
To honor the memory of deceased loved ones, including anniversaries and memorial days;
- for the purpose of participating in a funeral procession, even if they are burying a very close and dearly loved person, and you really want to see him off on his last journey;
- for the purpose of performing any rituals or ceremonies;
- to visit the church, which is located on the territory of the cemetery;
- not on any memorial day, not on a church holiday, not even on a major church holiday (Easter, Trinity, etc.).
The protective energy field of a pregnant woman is divided into two - one part is used for herself and her protection, the other is used to protect the baby. Thus, at the energetic level, a pregnant woman has two energy fields. Both of these fields are easily vulnerable - one of them is temporarily weakened, and the other is just being formed.
Therefore, any negative impact will have a more devastating impact on a pregnant woman than on any other person. Also, the expectant mother shares any negativity with her baby, which can lead to serious, sometimes even critical consequences for the child.
Pregnant women are very sensitive to negative energy. The following dangers may await them on the territory of the cemetery:
Dead energy found everywhere;
- entities, creatures from a parallel world, restless spirits and souls;
- specialists who have knowledge and use this knowledge to cause harm to others - sorcerers, sorceresses, magicians.
Dark specialists can wait a long time for their victims. If their target is the “living” and not the dead, then they need a person who breaks the rules. And it doesn’t matter whether the rules are broken consciously or out of ignorance - such a violator will still become a victim. What could happen in this case? Anything. Evil eye, damage, illness...
For example, a specialist - a magician or sorcerer - has the task of saving the life of a terminally ill person. On the territory of the cemetery, he can exchange the life of his “patient” for the life of an unborn child without the pregnant woman noticing. Ultimately, the patient will recover, and the unborn child will die in his place...
After visiting a cemetery, do not bring cemetery soil into your apartment or house with your unwashed shoes, which may be on the sole or on the sides of the sole. Be sure to take off your shoes before the front door, thoroughly rinse your shoes with clean running water, clearing them of dead soil, and then bring your shoes home. This is not difficult to do, especially since by doing this you will save yourself and your loved ones from many possible problems.
If you drove into the cemetery with your car, do not rush to drive it into the garage - you should definitely stop by a specialized car wash and wash off the cemetery soil and dust from the car.
Tools that you used in the cemetery should be washed with running water and dried. It is not recommended to store it in an apartment.
Of course, this article does not contain all the rules of conduct, but only some of them.
However, violation of these rules of conduct due to ignorance of these rules, or due to unwillingness to comply with them, out of stubbornness or due to the reluctance of an atheistically inclined person to believe in their effectiveness, does not exempt anyone from responsibility, and then there is a risk that one will have to pay for the mistakes made.
It is important to remember that a cemetery is a “temple of the dead”, and its own laws apply here.
Sooner or later, each of us faces death. Unfortunately, it is an integral part of the circle that all living beings on our planet go through. We are born, grow and die at a moment unknown to us until that very last fateful moment. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with having information about signs in a cemetery. After all, most of them are the result of long observations and secret knowledge that our people possessed in ancient times. It is worth noting that signs at funerals and in the cemetery represent a certain set of rules. If you follow them, the dead will never harm you, but, on the contrary, will always come to your defense in any situation. We think this alone should attract your attention to this article.
What not to do in a cemetery: list of prohibitions
Regardless of religious beliefs and social status, every person should understand how to behave in a churchyard. Otherwise, due to ignorance or carelessness, you can make a number of mistakes, including fatal ones. Knowing the signs at the cemetery will definitely protect you from negativity and life problems that you can bring home after a funeral or visiting the graves of loved ones. So, what you should never do in a cemetery:
- For some reason, it is customary among our compatriots to remember the deceased with strong drinks. This is strictly prohibited both at a funeral and in the case of a regular visit to a churchyard. The fact is that the soul of the deceased may become angry with his not-so-sober relative and contribute to the arrival of some troubles in his life. In addition, all people related to magic know that a drunk person’s energy field sharply weakens, so any negativity easily clings to it. And the cemetery, as you know, is the place where a large amount of bad energy and various entities accumulate. You shouldn't risk attracting their attention to you.
- Be extremely careful when talking about your current affairs at the grave. Many people, coming to their deceased relatives, share with them joyful and sad news, plans for the future and their fears about this or that action in life. However, there is no need to be overly emotional, because the soul may take pity on you in case of trouble and call you along. And it is completely unacceptable to ask for death while lamenting. In this case, the spirits of the graveyard will definitely hear you and fulfill your voiced request.
- It is better not to take children under twelve years of age with you to the churchyard. They have not yet lost contact with higher powers, so they have the opportunity to see the souls of the deceased. And they, in turn, can try to get in touch with the child. It seems that such an experience will not benefit your child.
- Do not allow quarrels in the cemetery. Our ancestors argued that those who swear at the grave will always be surrounded by problems and troubles. Esotericists confirm this sign, because the energy of the deceased is capable of several times increasing the negativity thrown out here.
- Experienced people also advise visiting the graves of deceased relatives before noon. After lunch, a rampage of low energies begins in the cemetery, which can also affect you. Therefore, plan such trips for early in the morning, in this case they will be safe.
As you can see, these rules are quite simple, but they are not the only ones regarding signs in the cemetery. Therefore, we decided to look at a few more important topics that reveal superstitions and rules for visiting a graveyard.
Funeral: how to behave correctly
It's no secret that a person must be seen off on his last journey, observing a lot of rituals. Not every one of them is significant enough to affect the course of life of the person involved in the process. In this section, we have collected only the most important rules that must be followed by anyone who had to attend a funeral:
- Try to dress only in black when seeing off a loved one on their last journey. It is believed that wearing white and colored clothes will be disrespectful to the deceased, and you may incur negativity.
- Never talk loudly during a funeral, this will definitely not please the souls living in the cemetery.
- You cannot tell stories, share news and life events while you are at the graveyard. All conversations should concern only the deceased and the good that he did in life.
- Even if you had a difficult relationship with the deceased, find good words for him during the funeral. Under no circumstances should one speak ill of the deceased.
- It is necessary to see off a person on his last journey only in closed shoes. Exposed toes and heels will spell trouble for you as they may come into contact with the cemetery soil.
Any violation of the above rules entails a number of problems that will be difficult to somehow neutralize. Esotericists say that such negativity becomes a very heavy and unbearable burden, breaking the usual way of life. Keep in mind that in any case, you should take a bottle of water with you to the graveyard and be sure to wash your face with it on the way out to get rid of the cemetery’s negativity.
Is it possible for pregnant women to go to a cemetery: signs
The presence of women in a delicate position at the churchyard raises many questions, because expectant mothers should experience only positive emotions. How much harm could it do to them to attend a funeral or visit the grave of a loved one?
Of course, pregnant women should avoid traveling to the cemetery. Their energy is very sensitive to the low vibrations that permeate this earth. In addition, signs warn women expecting a baby from visiting the churchyard for a number of the following reasons:
- The souls of the deceased and dark entities living on the graves can take the baby with them. They may be attracted to it and the baby’s soul will be drawn to the call, leaving the mother’s womb.
- In some cases, the soul of a deceased person can move into an unborn child if it really wants to find a body ahead of time.
To avoid all this, a pregnant woman should wear a red dress and tie a band of the same color on her wrist. This will scare away the spirits and protect the soul of the unborn baby.
Overnight at the churchyard
Night in the Graveyard is a cliched trope in most horror films. Many people associate this with something really scary that can end in death.
But in fact, anyone can spend the night in a cemetery absolutely calmly. Especially if he comes to the grave of his loved one. Magicians say that the souls of relatives will never harm us. They will guard and protect their relatives from all the problems of the material and otherworldly world. Therefore, if for one reason or another night finds you in a cemetery. Just mentally ask for protection from your relatives, who will definitely take you out of the graveyard safe and sound.
Photos at the cemetery
Esotericists speak extremely negatively about photos taken in a cemetery. We think everyone knows that there is a very close connection between a person and his image. At the same time, the person himself can be easily influenced through a photograph, which is what happens in the case of cemetery photographs.
Judge for yourself: you firmly associate your image in the photo with the coffin, monument, wreaths and the deceased himself. All this bears a strong imprint of negative energy, which in the future can even cause an incurable disease. It is especially dangerous to take photographs at a grave that is not yet forty days old. Until this period expires, all the negativity that spilled out at the moment of a person’s death remains on earth.
Also, photos can disturb the soul of the deceased, who, through the photo, will begin to come to his home, where he once felt good. We think that such a neighborhood will definitely make you feel uncomfortable.
Magicians claim that it is in the cemetery that numerous acts of corruption or summoning of dark energies are carried out. Absolutely by chance, you can capture yourself in such a place, associating your image with low magical vibrations. The consequence of such a connection may even be the death of the person depicted in the photo.
from the funeral
If you do have to take a photo of the grave, try not to keep it at home. It will be a real negative funnel, creating an unfavorable atmosphere in your home. It will absorb all the good that you create. Children are especially susceptible to such vibrations; they begin to constantly get sick and be capricious. There will never be peace, love and prosperity in such a house.
If you still need to store photos in your apartment, you need to put them face down in a thick envelope. Place it away from all the things you use, in an area of the house where little family members are present.
Things from the grave
Remember that you should never, under any circumstances, take objects from graves. Flowers in a cemetery, for example, are often the subject of theft. People without a fixed place of residence take them away from their graves and resell them to traders. And they, in turn, again make them a means of their profit. Please note that such an act can greatly anger souls. After all, flowers in a cemetery are intended for one or another deceased person. By taking them, you are committing a very unseemly act, which will soon be punished.
Signs prohibit taking any things from the cemetery; they already belong to souls and must remain with them. Many magicians advise coming to the grave of relatives with a minimum number of things. After all, a phone that, for example, accidentally fell out of your pocket, will also need to be left in the cemetery, like any other thing that has fallen on this earth.
If you nevertheless become greedy and pick up this or that item, you will anger the soul, and it may go to your home for its item. Peace in this case will become your unattainable dream.
Cemetery land
Soil from a cemetery is the worst thing you can bring into your home. In this case, you not only attract all the negativity from the graveyard, but literally bring a piece of the grave into the apartment. The consequences of this oversight will be extremely sad.
To avoid accidentally taking soil from the cemetery with you, rinse the soles of your shoes with the water you brought, then wash your hands and face. This is the only way you will neutralize the negativity focused on any graveyard.
Fall during a funeral
Falling into a cemetery is a bad omen, promising many problems. But it is still worth taking into account the nuances of this fall; they significantly affect the situation.
If you accidentally tripped, don't be upset. This means absolutely nothing and you don't need to worry for no reason. However, try not to fall into the cemetery. This sign promises quick death or a long illness. It is especially bad to end up in a grave that has already been prepared for someone; this incident may mean that the deceased is pulling you towards him and will try with all his might to maintain an energetic connection with you.
Those who fall during the funeral procession must leave the churchyard immediately. It is best to go to church after this incident, where you need to wash yourself with holy water, light a candle for the repose of the soul of the deceased and read any prayer several times.
Pets in a cemetery
Cats or dogs in a cemetery are not the best omens. Our ancestors also said that if a dead person appears in the house, you should remove all pets from it. This is especially true for cats. They are closely connected with the dark world and can bring a new misfortune to you - the death of another family member.
If you see an animal during a funeral procession, pay it off. Perhaps this is how someone’s restless soul is trying to approach you. Give your cat or dog a treat and gently move the animal away from you. After all, in such an image an evil spirit may appear near you.
Feathered
The sign of birds in the cemetery causes a lot of controversy. However, most esotericists agree that a bird flying to a grave gives you a sign from the deceased. In ancient times, it was believed that birds were inhabited by the souls of people who did not manage to complete something during their lifetime. That’s why they fly to their relatives, trying to remind them of their unfinished and important work.
Money in the churchyard
There are special signs in the cemetery related to money. Never take out banknotes while in the graveyard. And especially don’t start counting them. Otherwise, you will lose not only the entire amount in your wallet, but also the money accumulated for this or that occasion.
If you lose a banknote, then leave it to the soul of the deceased - greed will not bring you any good. After all, by raising money, you will offend the deceased and force him to follow you in order to return what was intended for him. Remember that there is a rule here that prohibits picking up anything from the ground in the churchyard.
Conclusion
We hope that we have told you in as much detail as possible about the signs and rules regarding behavior in the cemetery. Now, when you come to the grave of a loved one, you will know how to behave correctly so as not to offend the deceased and the forces that rule on this earth.
Sleep of the mind
And now what I started with and continue with.
Cemeteries have a certain energy structure. Essentially, it is a huge web centered on the grave of the Cemetery Master. The threads go from each grave to the Host, the brightest area on the map. There may be several bright points to which the strings stretch, but there is still only one Master, he is the brightest. The Master of the Cemetery or the Bone Master is, roughly speaking, the most important dead person who maintains order there. If he likes you, he will lead you to his grave.
Any cemetery has a passage into the cemetery. Sooner or later the dead go there.
For a practitioner, a cemetery can be a place of power. But not everyone can work with it without harming themselves. If only because not everyone tolerates his energies well. Weakness and malaise during/after visiting a cemetery may be the result of such intolerance. (You can attach bindings, but that’s a different story.)
The energies in the cemetery are heavy, viscous, mostly in the blue-violet spectrum, but may also be brown or grayish. Necro-energies act like alkali, corroding other energies if they are combined.
The Master of the Graveyard, when he appears, is often blue-violet in color. Sometimes a silhouette, sometimes it appears as a purple skeleton. Although, maybe that’s what I like to do specifically.
At first, when visiting this place, it is better to protect yourself. You can pick up negativity. If accepted by the cemetery, it will protect itself or supplement existing protection.
Coins, bread, etc. Do not pick up at crossroads or graves. It is obvious. Get ready for the fact that you are not the only magician there)
Let me remind you about the offerings and that you need to say hello at the entrance. This is basic politeness, and the cemetery will be pleased.
If the cemetery has recognized you and has become your place of power, you can ask it for help. The Dead or the Bone Master. Where necessary they will help, the ritual will be strengthened, energy will be shared. They will show you the place needed for the ritual, and they may even suggest what and how to do it correctly.
If you have been friends for a long time, you can do it without physically coming to the cemetery. Just reach out to him and call him. In some cases, they can even hide you, you never know, someone will chase you. Anything can happen in the astral plane. When this happened to me, the Bone Master couldn’t think of anything better than to hide me in his grave. Few people like necro - they left me alone.
If the locals like you, they may ask you to come more often, come directly to the broadcast and dreams, ask for something, etc. Now you seem to belong.
The cemetery can feed a person. In this case, a tie is placed on the victim and the other end is thrown towards the grave. But there must be a really good reason for this, otherwise the cemetery will refuse, and you yourself could be killed.
If the cemetery is large, it will be divided into areas. One area may have a completely different atmosphere than another. These areas have boundaries that can be felt like a warm, dense wall.
The entire cemetery also has a boundary. Often it lies a couple of tens of meters behind the fence, especially near large ones.
The cemetery can be hectic.
There are always active graves. Most of them are near the cemetery fence: they seem to be guarding their “home”. But there are also ones completely inside. And when there are too many of them, the cemetery becomes restless. How does this manifest itself? The boundary of the cemetery is expanding and begins to cover nearby houses (remember that the fence is a very conditional boundary). Living next to such a cemetery becomes impossible or very difficult. Most often, people don’t see, but they feel everything perfectly.
Everyone knows the phraseology "grave cold." It's really cooler in the cemetery than outside. Therefore, in cold weather, it is better to take gloves for working on the grave. An individual dead person who wanders into your apartment will also feel an unusual, “non-physical” cold. Contrary to expectations, active graves are warm. At the head of the bed you can feel a warm whirlwind rising from the ground.
I visited an interesting place in my city. The cemetery is small, but it so happened that it “grew” to the building closest to it so that the graves were located right under the windows. The passage into the necrosloy was formed right there, in the house. If you look closely, you can see that the airspace inside the house was occupied by an animal from the necrolayer. Naturally, people left it (although they even managed to install double-glazed windows in some apartments). Here are a couple of photos from there, you can take a look.
